Today, I’m going to show you how to trust yourself in a world filled with loud advice, viral strategies, and “proven” systems.
Because when you learn to trust yourself, you stop following paths that were never meant for you.
You stop second-guessing every decision.
And you finally start building something that actually feels like you—not a copy of someone else’s business, life, or style.
Unfortunately, most people never get there.
They drown in advice. They hesitate every time a guru says “this is the way.”
And eventually, they lose the ability to tell what feels right—for them.
- They confuse imposter syndrome with intuition.
- They follow “best practices” without checking if they actually align.
- They assume others know better, just because they’re louder or more successful.
“Proven” Advice Is Stealing Your Power
Most people think: “If it worked for them, it’ll work for me.”
But business doesn’t work like that. Life doesn’t work like that.
What works for someone else might destroy your energy, your clarity, and your momentum.
So let’s skip the cookie-cutter advice and talk about what it really takes to trust yourself.
There will be zero hacks or tricks in this issue. Just proven tactics that help you reconnect with your own voice.
When you learn to trust yourself, you’ll:
- Gain more clarity in your decision-making
- Feel less anxiety over whether you’re “doing it right”
- Build a business that feels aligned—not forced
- Gain confidence to build on your terms
You’ve got experience.
You’ve got instincts.
And deep down—you already know what feels right.
How to Trust Yourself in 3 Steps
This is the exact process I use to reconnect with my intuition—even when “experts” say I’m wrong.
You’ll learn how to:
- Catch yourself before blindly following advice
- Tell the difference between fear and gut instinct
- Build real proof that your own path works
Let’s break it down 👇
Step 1: Catch yourself before you outsource your voice
It starts with awareness.
Every time you’re about to take action because “someone else said so,” pause.
Ask:
Does this actually feel aligned with how I want to work?
Because if it doesn’t, you’re setting yourself up to resent the results—even if it “works.”
Example:
I once rewrote my entire sales page based on advice from a “conversion expert.”
The numbers tanked. Why? Because I removed the parts that sounded like me and replaced them with polished fluff.
Lesson? If your gut says, ‘This isn’t me,’ believe it.
Step 2: Stop calling intuition “self-doubt”
Here’s where most people go wrong:
They assume that the hesitation they feel is fear, not wisdom.
But there’s a difference between “I’m scared” and “This doesn’t sit right with me.”
The more you learn to tell them apart, the faster you’ll start making decisions that stick.
Example:
When I lowered my course prices (against all advice), I felt nervous—but also sure.
That wasn’t fear. That was intuition. And the results proved it was the right move.
Step 3: Build proof that your way works
This is the part that builds trust > time.
Start tracking where your way leads to wins—big or small.
Because trust grows when you see results.
Example:
When I stopped chasing trends and doubled down on writing (instead of video), I worried I’d miss out.
But I gained something better: a consistent, aligned audience who actually reads.
Each win—even the small ones—is proof your way works.
And when it happens often enough, you stop needing permission from anyone else.
You don’t need another framework.
You need to listen to yourself more than you listen to the internet.
Bonus ChatGPT prompt
Want help putting this into practice? Try my prompt:
I’m deciding whether to [describe your decision] in my business. I’m torn because [explain what’s pulling you in different directions]. Your job is to help me figure out if this feels aligned with how I want to work—not to tell me what’s right. Ask me 3 sharp questions that get me to my own answer.
P.S. If you’re ready to create a business that feels true to you, I help entrepreneurs like you build strategies that align with your instincts, not just industry trends. Want to chat? Book a strategy call and let’s figure it out together.
